On Give It Away Saturdays I look back at my Goodwill lists and share three things I donated. Part fun, part reflection, it reminds me that I’m not defined by my (forgettable) stuff. I hope this motivates you to pack it up, move it out and finish the weekend lighter.

Which came first, the chicken or the egg? Or in my case, which came first, my antique printer box or my first miniature?

First a history lesson. Back in the day, printers used to keep movable type characters organized in compartmentalized wooden drawers. Grab the stamps you need to make a word, ink ‘em, press ‘em, voila. I’m sure it was more complex, but you get the point. Printing eventually became sophisticated and the boxes were no longer needed. Some lover of knickknacks had the brilliant idea to hang a discarded box on the wall and fill the holes with teeny tiny dust collectors. A new industry was born.

I grew up in Erie, Pennsylvania in the late 1970s and 80s and was heavily exposed to the Americana decor craze. I lived at the epicenter of mauve meets blue meets painted wooden ducks meets red, white and blue heart stencils in the kitchen.  We attended craft shows and visited antique stores. I knew how to sew before I needed a training bra. So naturally I had my own printer box and collected miniatures. I had well over 100 – more than my box would accommodate. I was known to double up or rotate my collection (like they do at The Met).

I knew the dimensions of my compartments. I could spot a perfectly sized miniature from a distance, asked Santa for miniatures, used some of my hard-earned lawn mowing money to purchase all things little and became shrewd at acquiring free miniatures – promotional matchbooks from restaurants, flag pins from ethnic fairs, you name it. I was a hard-core collector. Organizing excites me and visual order brings harmony to my days. So here we had a utilitarian antique that added to the chic aesthetics of my green-and-pink-flowered pre-teen bedroom. It was my prize possession.

These little treasures brought me endless pleasure. I recall my dad screwing my box into my bedroom wall and later into the plaster at my first apartment. When my husband and I moved to Las Vegas in 2001, I painstakingly wrapped each miniature, and away to the Wild West we went. I’m not sure when my taste changed or I outgrew the need to have these teeny reminders of my past as wall art, but the thought of displaying these or any other collection in Las Vegas turned my stomach.

I’m sentimental, so I kept my collection packed in a giant box for nine years. I opened it a few times to reminisce and relive the experiences associated with each piece, but never had the desire to put this stuff out on parade. The printer box is long gone, but it wasn’t until this spring that I decided these miniatures no longer had a place in my life. I lined them up and preserved them through digital photos. Off to Goodwill they went. I don’t regret it. The photos make me smile, the big box is gone and hopefully someone else is enjoying my minis.

I wonder if Goodwill sold them individually (10 cents each?) or as a collection ($5 for the lot?).

Gave It Away. Glad It’s Gone.

1.  Miniature Mickey thimble

2.  Miniature barber pole

3. Miniature bags of Ruffles, Doritos and Fritos

Parting with my miniatures was a major step in my decluttering process. Sometimes the least valuable items are hardest to give up.

What are the “miniatures” in your life? Have you passed them on? Still debating and suffering from separation anxiety?



On Give It Away Saturdays I look back at my Goodwill lists and share three things I donated. Part fun, part reflection, it reminds me that I’m not defined by my (forgettable) stuff. I hope this motivates you to pack it up, move it out and finish the weekend lighter.

I won’t be needing ski pants anytime soon. Ditto for a Land’s End wool sweater with reindeer prancing across the boobie region.

It’s officially in the 100s here in Las Vegas, and it has me thinking. (Warning: excessive heat can cause delusions, so it could be a long summer, dear readers!). Nine years ago today, my husband and I were packing it up in Erie, Pennsylvania and preparing for a cross-country move to Las Vegas. Moving from the Great Lakes region, where snow was promised from Halloween to Easter, to the Mojave Desert produced an obvious “don’t need to take it” pile. While we debated about moving the lawn mower and yard tools across North America (moving companies charge by weight, FYI), there was no question: cold-weather gear wasn’t making the cut.

People think it’s hot in Vegas year round. It’s not. We heat our home and wear socks. It dips to the 30s in December and January. Thing is, even if it’s 40 degrees, you look silly in a wooly frock designed for a New England snow bunny.

With the sun shining brightly, cacti dotting the landscape and tourists sporting shorts (have they not heard of weather.com?), even winter clothes need to look desert appropriate. That’s why I’m glad I didn’t move the following. Even though these items wouldn’t have amounted to much in weight charges, puffy coats are still, well, puffy coats.

Gave It Away. Glad It’s Gone.

  1. Road salt-stained boots with faux fur peeking out the top.
  2. Earmuffs in black, blue and, ahem…leopard print . (We were just coming off the 90s, so sue me!)
  3. Ice scrapers galore; the snowblower; that Brookstone key ring gadget that de-ices car door locks; those bean stuffed door dogs/snakes/creatures meant to keep drafts out; shovels for light snow, medium-weight snow and the mother of all snows – Lake effect snow; plastic to seal in the windows until May; snow tires…

Oh. My. Gosh.

If you’re looking to declutter and minimize, here’s an idea…move to the desert! Just pack sunscreen.

On Give It Away Saturdays I look back at my Goodwill lists and share three things I donated. Part fun, part reflection, it reminds me that I’m not defined by my (forgettable) stuff. I hope this motivates you to pack it up, move it out and finish the weekend lighter.

I’m amazed at the time, effort and money some brides of yore put into preserving their wedding gowns. Most (I said MOST) young blushing brides don’t want to wear grandma’s dress that hints of moth balls and Jean Nate. Unless you’re a vintage chic, enjoy a nice yellowish cast and like the way you look with a giant butt bow, chances are good you’d prefer your own dress.

I wonder how many brides call off the nuptials because they just can’t bear to tell grandma “I won’t” to saying “I do” in her dress. Grandma should understand. After all, she got to pick her dress.

Ten years after getting married, my gown, which I adored and would pick again, hangs in a closet at my parents’ house. It’s likely in a garment bag. I say likely because I haven’t seen it in a decade. If my mom enjoys maintaining a Smithsonian exhibit of our dresses, that’s fine. I just don’t want it in my closet. I have beautiful, sweet memories of our wedding day stored in my mind. I don’t need a 30-pound dress stored in my closet to make the memories more special.

Now that you know where I stand on the topic, you won’t be surprised to learn that I donated my wedding purse and shoes. The purse was yellow by our third anniversary. The shoes hurt my feet. The most mileage they got was walking down the aisle.

I’ll always cherish memories of our wedding. It was sweet and special, just like my wedding dress, purse and shoes, which I’ll continue to enjoy through the magic of photographs.

Gave it Away. Glad It’s Gone.

  1. Yellowing bridal purse.
    Maybe a lucky bridesmaid can dye it seafoam green!
  2. Tight wedding shoes.
    Ahh…my first online purchase. A Pennsylvania girl with shoes from LA. How big city of me!
  3. Spare lace-trimmed thigh highs.
    The reason I needed a purse.

On Give It Away Saturdays I look back at my Goodwill lists and share three things I donated. Part fun, part reflection, it reminds me that I’m not defined by my (forgettable) stuff. I hope this motivates you to pack it up, move it out and finish the weekend lighter.

I wonder if coroners ever list “cause of death: minimizing” on death certificates.

Don’t laugh. Minimizing brings on a range of emotions, including big-time stress. Have too many cookies, skip too many workouts, give away too many handbags. Konk.

The stress factor will vary as you weed through the mundane to the mementos. Think about it. Going through utensils and adding meat thermometers and half-melted plastic spatulas to the “donate” pile hardly requires Kleenex and a chaise lounge. Paring down the wardrobe can be headache inducing. If the goal is to go from seven to three pairs of jeans, well there’s an afternoon right there. You’ve got to consider length, wash, cut, trend factor and how your butt looks.

Then there are mementos.

If I don’t use them for daily enjoyment, what good are they packed in styrofoam peanuts in a dusty box next to spiders? It’s memories that matter, and I can enjoy those via photos. Keep reading.

I’ve moved mementos to five different houses, including across the continent. Many of these antiquities haven’t seen the light of day since I sported a banana clip and braces. I finally did it. I visited my memory box, snapped photos (I can look at them whenever I’d like) and donated them to the Smithsonian. I mean Goodwill. Or the trash can in the case of #1 and #2.

Gave It Away. Glad It’s Gone.

  1. Tassle from graduation cap
  2. Champagne cork from my mom’s 40th (moldy, ewww)
  3. Precious Moment statue
    (It was aptly named “April showers bring May flowers.” I can’t think of a better day to let a new little girl owner enjoy it.)

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Each Give It Away Saturday I look back at the list of items I’ve donated to Goodwill and share three things I forgot I ever gave. Part fun, part reflection, it reminds me that I’m not defined by my (forgettable) stuff. As I laugh, gasp and roll my eyes at my lists, I’m inspired to declutter a bit more. I hope Give It Away Saturday motivates you to pack it up, move it out and finish the weekend lighter than you started it.

So speaking of forgettable, check out this dragon wall art! This fine piece of circa early 1990s handcrafted pottery demonstrated my ability to incorporate glazes, textures and (umm…) creativity to my high school pottery teacher. I earned an A- because I forgot to give the bumble bee his antennae. (My pottery teacher was buds with the biology teacher, so who can blame him?)

Knowing that I took this photo in Las Vegas is especially disturbing. It indicates that we either paid Atlas Van Lines to move this thing cross country when we relocated from Pennsylvania, or else had my parents ship it west. Disclaimer: this NEVER hung above my mantle or even in my garage. It’s just one of those funny things I felt the need keep. Without a doubt, it tops this week’s list:

Gave It Away. Glad It’s Gone.

  1. Dragon wall art (Do take a moment to admire the sheen. I masterfully applied that glaze!)
  2. Silk (polyester) pajamas with frogs all over
  3. Silicon bakeware

What have you donated that seemed absurd when you gave it up, but oh-so-practical when you purchased it?

(And if you’ve encountered my rare dragon masterpiece at Goodwill, was it at least going for 50 cents?)

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